Caregiving in Our Community
Caregiving in Our Community
By 2030, 7 million LGBTQ+ Americans will be over 65.
As our community’s aging population grows, it will become increasingly important to ensure that all individuals have access to proper care and support. Like our straight counterparts, many of us will find ourselves in the role of caregiver for a loved one.
However, especially within the LGBTQ+ community, finding caregivers and support can be particularly challenging.
Factors such as financial limitations, lack of legal protections, and discrimination have created significant barriers for retired or retiring LGBTQ+ individuals.
Within gay male cultures, youth is emphasized more, which often disregards aging concerns, leaving some older community members isolated, marginalized, and suffering in silence.
Entrusting the care of a loved one to a stranger can be a difficult decision—one that can be compounded by fear of inadequate treatment or discrimination for being LGBTQ+. Too often, LGBTQ+ older adults can allow this fear to postpone seeking assistance or support—which further increases isolation and decreases mental and physical health.
Let's discuss resources and solutions to overcome these challenges.
Chosen Family Caregiving
According to caregiver.org, two-thirds of older LGBTQ+ adults consider their friends their chosen family.
Many rely on chosen family for support, but without proper legal protections, their rights may be jeopardized.
Advance Directives
Advance directives are an important tool to support LGBTQ+ caregivers and their loved ones.
Discuss what they are and how they help.
Resources and Support
Numerous organizations and resources have emerged to assist LGBTQ+ retirees and their caregivers.
The Alzheimer's Association offers important guidance and support through its caregiver resources and online community,ALZConnected®.
SAGE operates the National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, which provides a range of resources, including care planning assistance and caregiver support.SAGECare* offers training for memory care providers to ensure culturally competent care for LGBTQ+ older adults.
The Gay and Lesbian Medical Association provides a directory of LGBTQ+-friendly healthcare professionals and advocate for health equity.
Additional Resources:
Workbook: Treece Caregiving Resource Guide
From Sacrifice to Stability: How Caregivers Can Safeguard Their Financial Future